Previously, Our Ancestor often thought that the more children we had, the more happines we found. However, in reality, a large family will lead to a lot of problems for the family in particular and for the development of society in general. Many social studies have shown an ideal family is a family with two children. This is a perfect model for couples with a modern lifestyle because it can overcome various problems that can occur in a family.

Specifically here is how people take care of their children. Children are extremely active and curious so their parents need to watch them carefully so that they can stay out of serious troubles. In 1 minute, your children may hurt themselves by playing with sharp objects such as knife. Many kids have met tragic accident when they participate in playful activities by water without adult supervision. So parents will take care for children easier and more attentive when they only have two children.

Nurturing is another challenge for parents. However, according to a government report by a government agency, the children raised in families with two children often have better behavior than the kids who have too many brothers and sisters. The children born and raised in a family with few children will get more attention and lessons from from their parents. Instead of wresting love from their parents, these children are also gain more opportunities to be heard and to share.

Another problem will be solved when a family decides to have few children is finance. We can not deny the necessity of money in guarantee a fulfilled life and a brighter future for our children. Money will be used to pay for education and health care fee when children are sick. On the contrary, in a overcrowded home, parents will be faced more financial burden, especially when the kids are born closely with their siblings. The problem can becomes worse if the family fell into difficult circumstances and do not have enough ability to send their children to school, the children will easily involve into crime matters and became sorrow not only for their parents but also for the society.

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A nuclear family is a family that has a mother, father, and children living together.

A single-parent family has a mother with children or father with children, but not both.

An extended family has other people besides the above groups, such as grandparents, cousins, aunts/uncles, etc. This is common in many parts of the world, but is less common in cultures like the USA, where nuclear families are most common.

The advantage of the nuclear family is that in areas where this is the most common type, it is most widely accepted and least likely to be looked at with prejudice. Another advantage is that a mother and father can share the work of parenting, and kids are raised with both a mother figure and father figure. This is also traditionally thought to be the most stable family type, though modern sociologists dispute this. Lastly, this is also a cost-effective form of family, as it has two primary money-earners who provide for children.

The extended family can have advantage over the nuclear family because there are more caretakers involved and children have a larger group of people to live with and learn from. It can be at a disadvantage if its large size leads to it being disorganized, leads to fighting, or leads to financial difficulties.

A single-parent family can have an advantage over the nuclear family if the nuclear family is not stable. For instance, if there is a lot of fighting, the children may benefit more from the parents being physically separated than trying to make a failing marriage work. The primary disadvantages are that the single parent has to do the work of two parents, so it is easier for them to get burned out, and money is often a bigger issue. Also, the kids do not have a mother or father figure depending on which parent is absent. For this reason, the single parent family used to be looked down upon, though nowadays a lot of sociologists are saying that whether a family is loving is much more important than whether the family is nuclear or not.